I would think either sister or if you have no sisters, your best friend.
Cambria
2006-01-24 00:03:14 UTC
Obviously, it should be someone you love and trust. The maid of honor has many responsibilities; if you have two friends and one is more responsible than the other, go with the responsible one! Or let them share the title & have two maids of honor. Of course, there's nothing saying that you have to have a maid of honor; I know of brides whose best friends were guys, so they had a "man of honor" or "person of honor." Bottom line: it's your day! Do what you want.
jessiblu_83
2006-01-24 01:24:04 UTC
i agree with cambria ... some others mentioned picking the friend who would be hurt the most if not picked , but you've got to keep your feelings in mind too ....not just base your pick on the woman who throws the biggest tantrum cuz she feels left out thats not the kind of friend your gonna need on your big day i really liked the idea of 2 personally i felt a lot of pressure when my sister asked me 2 b her maid of honor , so ask the two most important to you how they'ed feel sharing the title, if they really care & love you they'll set aside any feelings of self importance to help make your day perfect! good luck! congrats!
luckylady7728
2006-01-23 23:34:07 UTC
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. Your maid of honor plays a big part in that day, she should be your best friend, and you will never regret having your best friend as your maid of honor.
StarCy
2006-01-23 23:35:14 UTC
A close loved one i would say.. one you truely love and want to be beside you on your special day.. like your sister.. or a best friend that has been really special to you and helped you through hard times.. that you know will always be there for you.
BlueButterflyPrinncess
2006-01-24 19:32:49 UTC
I think you should go with your inner most gut feeling. Also put you self in ther shoes and them in you shoes would you want to be their maid of honner if it was the most impotent day of ther life would you want to share that with tnem and have that memery forever.
really?
2006-01-24 00:15:57 UTC
youll need alot of help with preparations, support, and everything else on the big day as well. someone you trust love and can depend on that you know will always be in yor life.
julie_rainbow69
2006-01-24 02:46:19 UTC
This is entirely up to you. Your best friend, your sister, or maybe a cousin.
inuyasha girl
2006-01-23 23:35:58 UTC
u shold chose a friend that is ur best friend and that would be even more hurt than the others if she wasen't choosen.
BurningPyre
2006-01-23 23:30:55 UTC
You should choose the friend that would be most hurt if she was not chosen.
onelightsleeper
2006-01-24 09:33:06 UTC
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Look for best answer
2006-01-24 01:47:27 UTC
best friend lady?
choir girl
2006-01-23 23:39:07 UTC
best friend
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