Found something weird under my boyfriend's sink?

Question

My boyfriend let me stay in his apartment last night while he was at work and I took a shower. I didn't have a razor, so I looked for one under his sink. My boyfriend is OCD-clean and neat, so underneath his sink is not all that cluttered at all. One thing I couldn't help but notice (as it wasn't concealed by anything,) was an opened c -ndom wrapper.......and next to it, was a c -ndom wrapped up in a kleenex (yes, I got snoopy in unwrapping the kleenex bc when I saw the opened wrapper, I got suspicious... because he and I arent going all the way.) I *think* it was unused, maybe he opened it, didn't need it, so he wrapped it back up to save it and keep it clean? Not sure why he kept the opened wrapper...

Even weirder, next to that was a couple of pieces of kleenex wrapped up with sticky yellow stuff on it. At first I thought it was a used c -ndom rolled up, but I unraveled the whole thing and there was nothing in there...it was just dried, crusty yellow stuff on kleened. I actually smelled it, and it didn't smell bad at all, so I don't think it was snot, urine or male [you-know-what.] I have NO idea why he'd keep any of this stuff.

Also, in his shower, right on top of his bar of soap, I noticed a long brown hair. He has very short, light brown hair and I have long bright blonde hair. Assuming he showers everyday and uses the bar of soap he has in the shower, this has to be fairly fresh... I don't know of anyone else who he may let use his shower...

He and I have been together for 5 and a half months.

What are some reasons why a man would save a c -ndom AND the wrapper? What could that yellow stuff in the kleenex have been..and why save it??? (paternity test?????) and the hair... wtf?!

Answer 1

You can type the word "condom" without the condom police coming to arrest you, you know. It is not a bad word.



If he is COD and neat, why would he have left a hair in his shower or what seems like a sperm filled kleenex and open condom wrappers in his vanity cabinet? It makes no sense, considering he is COD.



In any event, He may be masturbating in a condom to desensitize himself and last longer. So, why would he save it? But, the hair in the shower is more sinister. By all appearances, he had a woman take a shower in his shower. Or, the brunette girl hid that stuff under his vanity for you to find!! I am convinced that stuff was put there for someone to find. It makes zero sense that would be kept by him or anyone else, for that matter. It was staged there. Maybe the hair was, too. I think 'someone' wanted 'someone' to find it. But, who, is the question.



Although we can spin any story we want to explain away or point fingers at what you found. The only way you are going to find out for sure is to corner him and ask "Who is the brunette that has been naked in your apartment?" Or "Why do you need condoms?" This way of questioning does not give away what you found and where. Let him wiggle his way out of this one without revealing any information. He has no idea you found a brunette hair in his shower. And, if he put the condoms there, he can explain that away. But if he had no idea the condoms were in the vanity, he may ask: what were you doing going through my dresser drawers or my closet. Which tells you he has been using them, but with whom is the question.



I would have a hard time letting this one go. And, in order to trust him, I would need answers.

Answer 2

Geez... you are really nosey. You did not just find these stuff, you were snoopy on him. Yes you were snoopy... so just get it out of your system.



OK so he jerked off in the Kleenex and maybe he started jerking off in the condom. What you cannot say condom? And yuck... you put the Kleenex to your nose. Not right girl!!!! And heck he could have left it there and forgotten about it months ago. Maybe you should not be sleeping over if you are going to be snooping all over his stuff. How would you like if someone did that to you and posted it online for an answer?

Answer 3

Well he could have the condom hidden from you or everyone, he may not know the right way to dispose a condom. If the condom was stretched out it was most likely applied to his penis. That yellow stuff was most likely a lubricant from the condom that dried up from exposure and aged. The long hair is definitely something of interest and I don't have en explanation. Good luck.

Answer 4

A few weeks ago you said you were in love with a co-worker, yet you've got a boyfriend you've been with for 5 1/2 months? hmmmm Your post" " I'm in love with my coworker, we spend a lot of time together........?"

something smells in your story.

Answer 5

Prob cheating.