Why do women want to be treated equal, but still demand men to open doors?

Question

Why do women want to be treated equal, but still demand men to open doors?

Answer 1

Most of the women that are demanding for doors to be opened for them aren't the ones fighting for equality. Yes, we want to have the right and ability to vote and to go to war if we so wish. We want the right to do all the things men do. That doesn't mean we do want to do these things, we only want the chance. Women are still fragile and want to be treated how we once were. At one time women were treated with the utmost respect, honor and love, but, we had no rights. We are only asking that we still be respected but that we have all the oppurtunities and chances for greatness that men do.

Answer 2

I don't think women demand men to open doors, but they like to be treated respectfully by a gentleman and opening doors shows respect. There's nothing wrong with women opening doors, but it is proper etiquette for men to open doors when they're out with a woman.

Just because women want to be treated equal doesn't mean she wants to take a man's place or that she doesn't need a man to do anything for her. Women just want to have equal opportunities and the same advantages as men.

Answer 3

I don't "Demand" that doors be opened, or seats offered, or any of the other little gallantries that were once commonplace..if a gentleman does open a door for me, or offer me a seat on a crowded bus, I thank him for the kindness. That's social life.

At work, I expect to be treated as a co-worker, the same courtesies are performed, but without regard to gender,whomever reaches the door first should open it, whomever sees someone racing for the elevator should hold it, and when possible whomever is running to the corner for lattes should announce the coffee run to their nearest co-workers and ask if they'd like anything. THAT, Ladies and Gentleman, is equality...being polite to all, no matter what sex they are, not being rude because you can.

Answer 4

There are very, very, VERY few women who actually want equality. I met one sometime ago on a flower delivery that my father was doing. She bought her boyfriend (an auto mechanic) a dozen red roses for valentine's day, just as an example. I thought that was cool.



The truth is, most of the femnazi's are looking to be seen and treated equally, but only in certain cases. How many female rights activists are pushing for women to be drafted to war?



But why? Because it's convenient. Some things women should be equal on, such as income, but it goes overboard at times. The real why, is why not? Why not take special treatment when it's readily available?

Answer 5

Actually, I think that opening the door for someone is a sign of respect and helping the other person out. If he's closer to the door, I'd like him to open it for me, but if I'm closer to the door, I don't have a problem with opening it for him. So here's at least one woman who doesn't demand it...



To the previous answerer: Does this make me a "feminazi"? That word is offensive to me, becuase it makes it seem like women who want respect and equality are doing something horribly, horribly wrong. Please be careful with your terminology and make sure that you truly want to ally yourself with that point of view before choosing that word.

Answer 6

Women, we don't all agree on what we want. Plus we're fickle.



The answer really lies in the type of women you're attracted to. Sounds like you like the cute ones who won't settle for anything but the best. Try different types of gals to date.



Why is it when I open a door for a man, he opens the other door and avoids me, or we have an ackward dancing moment?

Answer 7

Not all women 'demand' men to open doors for them - I don't care either way. I'll hold the door open for my husband and he'll open the door for me. I think women enjoy it because they like to be pampered - just as a man enjoys a woman cooking him a homemade meal.

Answer 8

There's a difference between being 'polite' and wanting to be treated 'equally'.

Say, if I get my fiance a glass of water, does that mean I'm submissive or less than equal than he is? No. If he cooks for me 3 times a week, does that mean he's less equal than I am? No, of course not.

I think us ladies do prefer to see a level of politeness and courtesy, just like how you wouldn't want to see your female date prop her feet up at a fancy restuarant or belch in public.



When women 'demand' these things it just usually reflects their hopes that through equality - not being looked down upon or deemed as less than a man. It doesn't mean that we still can't be polite, civil and courteous to one another.

Answer 9

Well, gee, I open doors for men. It's called common courtesy. Of course, if you like, be a dork, and let the door slam in her face. You definitely won't be on anyone's A-list.

Answer 10

Well, I think that women wants equal opportunities, but they like a gentleman. Just that. As we, men, like ladies.

Answer 11

They want and need respect! Yes we want to be equal, however we also want to be treated like a lady. If Respect is shown, then chances are if she is a "Real Lady" she will love u, cherish u, and respect you over any one else!

Answer 12

Opening doors is etiquette.



Equality is justice.



Two different things!

Answer 13

Because they want to have their cake and eat it too. Its the female way.

Answer 14

that's what I constantly keep asking myself!!!!