How angry do you get at news of children being abused?

Question

Being a victim of child abuse, it boils my blood! I would love to locked in a cell with these people and do HORRIBLE things to them - woudl you?

Answer 1

I boil. Due to circumstances, I could never have the children I always dreamed of having. For someone to abuse a child sends me into a fury, especially when it is the child's parents. So many people out there would have wanted and cared for and loved that child, and it was given to scum. And when I was a bit younger, I would have taken it personally. Why them, and not me, scum gets a children , but I don't. Life really is difficult, sometimes.

If a person who does not want their child reads this, give it up for adoption, or take it to a hospital, or a fire department, or police station, or a government facility, and ask for help. Did you know it is legal to do so? Check your state laws, but I think that is in every state. There was a recent case of a woman leaving her children at the grocery store. she was not prosecuted, they decided she had tried to ask for help..

There was a case here in my town, where the father tried to sell the baby, less than a mile from my house. Someone witnessed it, and called the cops, who got the scum. Wish I had been there, I'd have bought it. That baby would have been so spoiled. I'm

sitting here crying, just thinking about it.

If you really want to make your blood pressure skyrocket, subscribe to Scan USA. It's free, and you type in zip codes where you live, or anywhere you want.. They send you an E-mail with the predator's address and picture every time a sexual predator comes to that zip code, or moves within it. It gave me cold chills one day, when I recognized someone I went to high school with. And the people at my x-job couldn't wait to call me to tell me an x-co-worker's husbands picture was there. I did not get that one, not my zip code choices. Scan USA does not tell you what kind of predator, though, if it was a child or adult victim. There is a predator around the corner and down the street from me, and one two houses down from a friend, 7-8 blocks away from me.

I would never act on the impulse, but it does make you want to beat the living dayllights out of a predator, or exact some good old biblical "eye for an eye". on them. How that guy on NBC's Dateline predator sting programs deals so calmly with those scum, I do not know. Bet he loses sleep over it. And that horrible one who brought his son with him to the house where he was prepared to have ... with an underage child, oh, my. they did not have the interview, they came out of hiding, told him what was going on, and to leave, and tried not to arrest him in front of his child, and warned him to cooperate, and not bring the child's attention to him. He did cooperate.

Thank you for asking this question, and allowing folks to ventilate some anger.

Answer 2

You know that the statistics are very high on girls being sexually abused at least once before they turn 18, and the stats for boys are not really accurate because many males do not report. I think we should have a special place for all pedophiles male and female, place them all together an island in the middle of no where would be wonderful. And air drop them food once a month. Since we can not just kill them. The laws should be strict from the first offense like life in prison, so they would not get the chance to continue on with their behavior till they are caught. chances are when they are caught it is not the first or second time, they have been doing it for years. Society and the law doesn't do anything until they have murdered a child. It is beyond belief. We give drug dealers and drug abusers more prison time. I wonder when the time will come when we as a society begin to value our children. God bless. I guess you could say, yes it makes my blood boil, over boil. I am sorry for you that you had to endure this, if you have not sought out counseling, do yourself a favor and get some. It is many time soffered for free you could contact a Rape Crisis Center in yoru area and they can direct you to some counseling. Many times the people who do this type of counseling are survivors themselves so the empathy is very real. they know first hand what you are going through. You are in my prayers. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 3

I'v answered several of this type of question and my answer will always be the same , these b*stards should be publicly skinned alive and the remains fed to the dogs, but if you take notice of how many politicians and judges and the like , are involved in some sort of pervertion scandal then we have no chance of putting an end to it untill we , the electorat , demand that the b*stards get what they deserve , and we should not vote for any party that does not see this issue as a priority, and i for one will join any campaign that is endeavouring to bring this about .But what about the victim what help do they get , almost nothing , because the resources are spent on the scumbags in prison with their therapy and counselling so they can secure an early release from their totally inadequate sentence so they can go out and do it again , while the victim suffers a life sentence with no chance of parole. I am not a victim of abuse but i have got six kids and i can tell you that if anybody touched one of mine , they'd have no chance of ever getting to court unless it was the coroners .

Answer 4

It boils my blood too i was reading an article today in a magazine about a girl that had been abused but didn't even know it.

Her friends father used some kind of doping drug and had a lock up somewhere and because he didn't pay the rent they opened it up and found over 14,000 images of children indecently exposed most of which had not been developed.

it really brought a tear to my eye that someone who worked with children and was a volunteer with the NSPCC could do something like that.

I think they should all be shot , that might clear a lot of places in prison.

Words can not describe how it makes me feel and I can only hope that children who are abused in any form realise that it is very wrong and they should report it to some one.

How could anyone harm an Innocent child in anyway.

Answer 5

If I really said how I feel about children been abused then I would have more than a violation on here that's for sure, there are no words readable from me to describe how it makes me feel, those kids are ruined for life both physically and emotionally, they never forget what has happened to them, never trust anyone fully, find it hard to be in loving relationships, have to suffer the indignity of been told by so called professionals that they will more than likely end up abusers themselves one day and are expected to just get on with their life and put it behind them, how can they ever be a survivor of abuse when they are always looked on as a victim, abuse doesn't just affect the child it ruins the whole of families too, it more than makes my blood boil.

Answer 6

I agree with kevinmonighan. The word abuse can sometimes refer to both necessary disciplinary action and deprived acts of cruelty alike. Some people think that no child should be physically harmed in any way, but there are times when verbal disciplinary action is not taken seriously, then the child needs a whoopin. And I agree that if there's blackeyes or open sores then thats going WAY too far, but I grew up with many people who are fine examples of human beings today because when we were young we all got the belt across the *** and therefore trembled with fear at the sight of drugs and didn't hang out with people that would get us whooped lol. There is a difference between necessary and sick though. As far as ALL sexual abuse this is always sick no matter what context.

Answer 7

You have been through so much. My heart goes out to you. It's wonderful that you are happy and well adjusted now and also encouraging for me as two of my four children have been abused.



When these people do get sent to prison they get repaid over and over for what they did to children by the other inmates. I have heard stories of old guys being repeatedly gang raped so maybe some will find solace in that.



It really angers me that there are such perverts on the world!!!

Answer 8

Yes Vashti, I understand..been there and just as angry. However, the best revenge, I've heard, is looking good...and feeling good as well. One thing I do to feel good involves a fantasy I created some time ago ...and its almost real now. Since my parents were so shitty, I invented new ones. I thought up all the details, what they looked like, where they lived and go home in my thoughts from time to time. (I went into a meditative state when I first created this and let me thoughts take me away.) They are always ready to welcome me home with lots of love and creature comforts. Warm great pleasures that drift me off to sleep and make me feel very loved and very wanted.

Answer 9

These gutless cowards only take their anger out on children, because they won't or can't fight back. If I had the chance I'd give them a good kicking.



They should be locked up for life. I believe other prisoners don't give them an easy time in jail either, they often end up being abused themselves.

Answer 10

Very,very angry and sickened by the people who do. I hope they get caught and go to jail because I've heard that other convicts really give a child abuser a taste of his own medicine!

Answer 11

i'm only 13, so when i hear of kids getting abused i get very angry, but also very scared. i always think "it could have been me". a PE teacher at my school was recently arrested 4 child molestation. that creeped me out 4 like 6 months.



but yah, i also get really angry, especially hearing of teachers, who are supposed to PROTECT the children, abusing them.

i hate hearing of little kids who are abused. i just want to take them somewhere where they can cry and see people who can help them and feel that they are safe.

Answer 12

Furious and it stays in my mind and upsets me if i hear about it on the news.



I hate the way that many of these abusers are given priority over the victim. It's all about their needs etc. The government in uk gives them a place to live and makes sure they are comfortable and able to roam around looking for more kids to abuse. Then we hear the stories on the news and they are all sorry that it happened but it keeps going on and on. We need stricter laws for this and punishment.



stop locking up petty thieves and council tax dodgers and get the abusers locked up instead. prioritise.

Answer 13

Very very angry, this site's probably going to block most of this but..

Id like to find every ******* peado motherfucker and blow the back off their warped ******* waste of a good skull. Sick bastards like that have got no reason to exist on this planet and the ******* segragation they get in prison when they get caught is far too good for them.

Anybody out there who's even thinking about abusing a child should off their **** waste of a life.

Or they should publish their names in the local papers. Me and a few freinds of mine would love to meet them one night.

Answer 14

There is no reason for a child to get abused. Whoever abuses a child should be abused twice that much. Children need love and support, not to be a punching bag to an adult who cannot control their temper. Anyone who has or thought about it will be punished by God himself.

Answer 15

I don't think you can change them.



You should worry about you, and being angry doesn't help you personally.



If you want to change laws or help victims, you should do so without anger. . .it's the selfish thing, but it sounds like you deserve to be selfish on this one.



Good luck, sister.

Answer 16

It upsets me as I have family members who have had lives affected by this,but what makes me even more mad is the people who work along side theses animals to make them see the error of their ways, animals like that do not change this is why they need locking up for life.

Answer 17

i feel physically sick,this happened to my elder brother,who has tried to take his life many times,self harmed etc.the convicted(paedophiles)get locked up,but then get put on protection.easy ride for them.the victims,they have to live with that for the rest of their lives.not only them,but their families too.i have always said i would love to put my family in the same room as this sick bastard(but we dont know who he is),and boy if i was let loose,i'd make sure that he could never lay a finger on another poor child.if the victim felt strong enough,even better.make them feel exactly like you did.i feel for you,i really do,i hope you've got a strong and protective family around you like my brother has.

Answer 18

I am truly sorry for what that thing! did to You that person was a braindead retro-human who was scared of real life he was unable to form a real man to woman relationship because of his fear of being rejected by an adult female so he took out his failing's on a Child who he could overpower.the difference is that WE All love and feel for You ,but despise him for his subhuman act.I hope he dies in agony.

Answer 19

I think these animals should be isolated on an island with each other and never allowed to join society again. They should not be anywhere near children.

Answer 20

i was sex abused and my answer is let them be treated exactly as they treat others like boy rapists should be put in with man rapists and some of them should be allowed to run free in the middle of the artic with no supplies or in death valley or the sahara thats a good one or put them all on an island and let them eat each other for food

Answer 21

remember that dude that wasn't going to a certain jail cuz he was really short and the judge was worried about him??? that guy was a child abuser and he deserves to be put in a place that people will treat him the way he treated innocent girls!

Answer 22

What saddens me most is those who abuse after a long history of themselves being abused. How screwed up must they be and yet we still do are not in a position to help anyone!!



HEY 'CUPPACOFFEE, YOU SOUND PRETTY STRESSED YOURSELF, GET IN TOUCH IF YOU WANNA CHAT. PLEASE.

Answer 23

I guess a mixture of both distress and anger.Doing horrible things to such people though,won't solve anything...I imagine that it would trouble your conscience a lot too if you were able to do so.

Answer 24

No just put the swines on a dessert island with a shite load of wild animals with big teeth and huge claws+ one film crew. Reality T.V will never be boring.

Answer 25

ABUSED is a very strong word....



if the kid is 15 and he is throwing stones at your car or hitting your partner or abusing your child then it's OK to put an end to it by whatever means necessary (air pellet to the jugular comes to mind).



Jst kidding, but som eof these wee bastards do deserve a kick up the ****, and if it happened to me i'd kick one of the ficking wanks right away and not think twice about it, the cops nowadays to nothing to reprimand them... "here you go son, have as ASBO", thanks officer, he night reply or else he'd go to the human right's council and complain that it was peer pressure.



**** them

Answer 26

Why in a US prison, why not make a few deals with European prisons, and put them there? The European prisions would have to be kept away though. They would tear them up.

Answer 27

Sorry you have been a victim it's makes me angry and sick can't imagine what it's like for you take care

Answer 28

-pain in the back

-tears in the eyes

-cramps in the stomack

-thoughts of vengence

-desire of being a better person

-contribution to make it stop

-jail for life for those dangerous animals-deep love for my child and all the children.

Answer 29

I went through things in my life but not by my mother or father but by other people. I think it is wrong to hurt people p.s. kids are people to

Answer 30

it makes me so mad i just wanna hurt child abusers i know this girl that when she was younger she was abused and her mom and she let her boyfriend and his friends rape her daughter for money

Answer 31

i have a step son who i love very dearley it makes me sad that i cant help every one of them

Answer 32

I would help you torture them to a slow death i would use the vilest techniques known to man.

Answer 33

I get pretty upset. Sometimes I cry. I have to remember that God"s Judgement is perfect and He will punish all of them.

Answer 34

EXTREMELY ANGRY.

YES, I WOULD PUSH THE BUTTON ON THESE A-HOLES!

Answer 35

Very!

Answer 36

I get VERY angry.

Answer 37

i tell my youngest he should be glad hes mine because he would put anyone else on the brink....... hes such a handful i would not leave him with anyone for fear of them snapping!

Answer 38

I hate it!

Answer 39

I will be upset about it.

Answer 40

I hope they burn in hell.

Answer 41

if they dont deserve it.. i think its feel stupid and sad.