Question:
Is it ever wise to send naked pics to your boyfriend?
anonymous
2009-09-06 22:20:49 UTC
Personally, I think not. Usually the case goes that the couple breaks up and the guy (jilted or harassed by his ex) puts them up all over facebook, all over the net, wherever, and causes a whole lot of trouble. But in my experience with people in general, it may not just be that. You never know who's looking through his phone, who's e-mailing those pictures to themselves so they can whack off, or so they can do some damage because they want to take your man. And that's under normal circumstances--imagine if the guy is off to college or in the Military, sharing a dorm with 90 other guys, half of which are gonna be asking to use his phone. That's what I think.

But am I being paranoid? A stick in the mud? He asked me to send him some and I said no, not just because of this, but because of my principles as a lady. "A picture's worth a thousand words; but mirrors keep secrets," is a saying I made up. He never pressures me about it. But what do you think? Is it ever wise to send naked pics to your boyfriend, via cell phone, email, or polaroid?
21 answers:
.
2009-09-07 00:14:40 UTC
Wait. You already know the answer to this question so why do you ask?
kymm r
2009-09-07 07:23:49 UTC
I have morals and values NEVER would I think about it. think about would you want a photo of you in underwear or worse showing up somewhere when you are married with a family? what people don't realise is some sites have the rights to any photos being sent as their property and legally able to keep them for a period of 7 years maybe longer if there is a contract on the site. one that says do you accept the terms and agreements if you click yes without reading it and something happends there will be nothing you can do because you agreed to it makes no difference if you decided to read the fine print or not.
anonymous
2009-09-07 09:05:49 UTC
No it's NOT a good idea , you NEVER know what happens to those pics maybe YEARS later, they might stop you getting a Hollywood film career or getting a better job.



Has he asked you for some naked pics of yourself ?

Have you got any such pics ? IF SO destroy them

& Refuse to have any taken.

Instead just offer to stand naked in front of him, WITHOUT any cameras in the room etc.

Show him what you look like naked,and that way he won't NEED any pics
sarah-irene
2009-09-07 06:19:36 UTC
It is never wise to send anyone naked pictures of our self. I am only in the 9th grade, andi have had people who are not even my boyfriend ask me and my friends for pictures. I have never sent anyone a naked picture of myself because no one needs a picture like that. One guy even used the excuse that he had never seen a naked girl on me and two fo my friends. It just goes to show how trustworthy some guys/boys/men can be....

And men, you too should never send naked pictures of yourself to someone....
anonymous
2009-09-07 05:41:58 UTC
One of my friend had done this for her boyfriends request to hr....

After some days she found those photos on some "CHEAP" porn site....with her phone no given with her pic...she was harrased by her college friends and neighboring boys of town too....She couldnt continue her college for about three months....THIS IS A TRUE STORY, that really happened...



Still...

IF U TRUST UR BF THEN IT'S ALL UR WISH, go for it!!!

OR

Give a second thought...pls!!!



Best of luck....





NOTE : 99% boys are not worth trusting!!!
anonymous
2009-09-07 05:29:03 UTC
Yeah...and u forgot to mention that anyone with the right equipment can intercept cell phone messages, pics, and texts. So really nothin u send by cell is private.
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2009-09-11 01:46:54 UTC
If you don't wanna find yourself on this website



http://www.imagefap.com/pics/28/teen.php



or a gazillion MORE then don't do it.



You will be seen by family members, school people, neighbors, etc. etc.



It will cause you NOTHING but pain and regret.
smrtblondie
2009-09-07 07:31:24 UTC
That's like asking if it's ever wise to put a loaded 44 into your mouth.



Not only is it not wise, it's dumber than sh*t. Leave that to the moronic sluts who aim to become porn stars (unless you're one of them...)
anonymous
2009-09-07 07:28:20 UTC
online nude photos ARE a bad idea, but there are so many pics he can use to whack off to.



i dont really know how many guys masturbate to pics of their OWN girlfriends anyway.



pornography is usually all about fantasy not reality.



send him semi nude pics to remind him what hes missing but let him have nude pics of anonymous internet girls so there are no privacy issue about your own image being spread around
Richard B
2009-09-07 05:25:49 UTC
Do not post any naked pictures of yourself on Facebook or You Tube or anywhere on the internet. If you want your boyfriend to have your naked pix then give him the photos in person.
anonymous
2009-09-07 05:27:52 UTC
never do it. It is going to backfire when the things get rough between you two. moreover, the issue of handphone misplaced etc..\someone else may got hold of your naked pic..and there you go... don't ever do it.
Classy Granny
2009-09-07 09:37:32 UTC
It's never wise. Those kinds of pictures have a nasty habit of falling into places you'd rather they didn't
RaTz
2009-09-07 05:30:50 UTC
No. GAH. I understand why people do it in the heart of the moment but they last forever... When you break up, or fight, or something happens, they WILL be used against you.
Joey Alexandru
2009-09-07 05:24:51 UTC
Boyfriends usually become ex-boyfriends. You should change your question to, "Is it ever wise to send naked pics to yoru ex-boyfriend?"
anonymous
2009-09-07 16:45:21 UTC
its not really the best of ideas, coz 'what goes around, comes around'. your future boyfriends could see these pics on the net, and get the impression that you're a slag (or 'woman of loose morals').....
мαяιтzα αяℓεηε
2009-09-07 09:35:48 UTC
No, I agree. It is never a smart thing to do.

They can easily be held against you.
anonymous
2009-09-07 05:24:57 UTC
No, if they relationship is that serious, get married and save your nudity for bed that way only his eyes can see it and not everyone on myspace.
anonymous
2009-09-07 05:28:33 UTC
No, I agree with you 100%.
hypno_toad1
2009-09-07 05:24:20 UTC
Nope, its never wise.



Boyfriends come and go, pictures follow you forever.
Joseph the Second
2009-09-07 05:39:22 UTC
Only if you don't mind Your Grandmother checking them out on UTube ! :o
V
2009-09-07 05:24:17 UTC
NEVER WISE.


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