How to politely tell someone they can't sit on your table at prom?

Question

Hi guys!
Unfortunately I'm having some prom table problems. One girl on the table I shall call her Sabine is having a pity party for a girl called Katie. The problem is no one on the rest of the table has a problem with Sabine but a large one with Katie.
All find her annoying and just generally not someone you want to sit with. I know it's prom and it's awful to boot someone off the table, but the majority would prefer she didn't sit with us and it would just make the evening so much more easier and less tense between everyone. We may have found another table for her but it's not definite unfortunately, so I have to prepare to tell her that she can't sit with us.
But I'm wondering how would one tell someone they can't sit with you at prom? Politely I mean. :3

Answer 1

Thankfully for you there are easy solutions for this problem.



1. Don't go to prom...imagine the look on "Katie's" face when she arrives and one of you are there..PRICELESS!



2. Bring a pet with you, I find dogs to be easiest to fill that "extra" seat.



3. Invite your mom (or other parental figure) to fill that seat.. Your mom will be thrilled to be your date and you avoid the problem that is your friend.



4. Gently tell her the truth...that you hate her mere existance and that you hope one day she will be cast in the show survivor.



I hope this helps! #promproblems #goawaykatie



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Answer 2

You never explained why she is such a bad person to us. I noticed you seemed irritated at some of the people that answered you. You should have explained why she is such a bad person for others here to understand. How are we as yahoo members supposed to answer to your liking. Not everyone is going to give you the advice you want. Especially, if you dont explain the full story of this girl. Like does this girl bully you or what?



In life after high school. It only gets worse. We will have to deal with evil bosses, coworkers. Not only that evil in laws you name it. If you want to be treated like an adult. I suggest to not nicely suggest she sit elsewhere. She will remember that for years after high school.



If you want to be treated as an adult. Act like you have class at this prom and ignore these idiots. Show them you can have fun. .Also, years after high school. You may regret your actions if you do this.

Answer 3

I wouldn't. Prom is a special night, and then you really never have to spend time with any of them again after that. It seems mean to exclude her on prom night. If you have a problem with her, then perhaps you should discuss that with her instead of being rude and cutting her out of the group. Sorry, but no matter how nice you are about it, it will be quite rude.

Answer 4

Girls are always catty! They think they are "too cool" to be seen with certain people and constant backstabbing/bitchiness goes on. I was in high school not long ago. Put yourself in her shoes and tell me, how would you feel being told you can't sit at a table you are assigned to at prom? There's no polite way of saying it either. I disliked a few girls in high school but two main ones actually did something to me.. Anyway, my point is, I still would have just dealt with it if one of them was at my table, even if I didn't like it. Because I could never bring myself to letting someone down like that. High school can be emotionally difficult and i wouldn't want to hurt someone in that way.

Anyway, I hope for her sake that she gets moved to a different table so she doesn't have to sit with such snotty girls. If you were half decent and mature, you would tell your friends to just deal with it.

Grow up!!

Answer 5

Dont be unkind, imagine what it would be like knowing no one wanted you at their table. You will do no end of damage to this girl if you behave in this horrible way.