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Okay, serious question. I have a reputation for being a cute guy in my college environment and in the sororities at my college and as a result, the girls would rather date me than hook up with me.

Oftentimes, the girls give me their numbers without me asking for them during the parties that my fraternity hosts and ask me to meet up with them when we are both sober. In fact, some girl even proposed going steady on the first night I met her. How can I get known as *the hot guy* that girls just want to hook up with in stead of date. Back in Northern Europe where I stayed for awhile, I had more hook ups and fewer dates with the German-Scandinavian ladies, but here in the States, the scenario is the total opposite. Please, 'cause I do not want a girlfriend, since I don't want to go shoe shopping with her, watch romantic movies and I don't want to wase my time in general.

My final question is: How can I become the bad boy or douche bag that girls want to hook up with but not date?

I would appreciate a "What-to-do" answer. And you can call be an idiot as much as you want for wanting to turn into a D-bag, but please just answer the question first.

Answer 1

Simple...be an azzhole. Act really sarcastic tell them your bi-curious and swingin' the other way for now just for awhile. Tell them you'll add their number in your collection resting in your cookie jar & they may be the ''lucky" one if their name is chosen blind-folded. That they have quite a line ahead of them. Start smoking cigarettes and pot, don't wear deodorant. Or roll yer eyes and act like your too good for them.

Tell them you hate shoes.



But if you wanna be a man ho, you gotta let your hair grow out man.....and just lift a few weights, get a tan, and wear tank tops. Get a tattoo on your arm, wear faded jeans.

Answer 2

The only way to hook up without having to deal with dating afterwards is to say "no" to date requests. or to go to parties where no one knows you or your phone number and find hook-ups there.



The world you are searching for, where people hook up and then don't ask to date, does not exist... Except in the movies.



If you want to hook up, you are going to have to accept that it can get messy. You need to learn how to turn people down with a minimum of drama. That means staying calm, keeping your message short (the more you say, the more they'll have to feel upset about), and being polite. Say simply:



"I'm not ready to date right now."

Answer 3

So, you want to be a man whore? Even though the type of girls who are loose have so much baggage and are at a higher risk to spread sexually transmitted diseases? You may be cute, but you sure ain't smart.



Nonetheless, all you need for a quick hook up is to be at a bar during closing time.

Answer 4

You are pathetic. When you grow up and get some smarts, and want a girlfriend, you'll realize that no decent girl will want a guy with a bad reputation.



But go ahead, take chances, get STDs. And if you get AIDS, maybe you will then realize how stupid your thinking is.